Actually, I can bitch because I always did my best to fight everyone, even shifters one on one. I can't tell you how many of my deaths were because I hung around just a little too long solo against a lion, panther, etc etc. I always tried to give at least SOME eq back to people who fell to me, especially if it was a fight I had help with. Very few times was this sort of behavior, either returns or solo fighting returned to me. There were some certainly, but for the most part it was not.