In the last month I've died close to a score of times to several enemies, and the worst I've heard was a demeanor of condescending superiority that perfectly fit the character of my enemy and one player's frustration at my dogged attempts to kill him one night. The only assinine looting I've seen was done by level teens stealing unprotected gear.

I see roleplay with both my allies and my enemies, my victims and my victimizers. I've had immteraction and a few awards.

Don't get me wrong when I say that your experiences might well be a reflection of what you are bringing to Carrion Fields. I have messed up and grumbled OOC at getting steamrolled, and I know I can't spell worth a damn and I'm a newb compared to the veterans you allude to, but unless you are making sweeping generalizations that have little bearing on reality, your reality is quite unlike what I've been experiencing.

I hope you find whatever it is you are looking for.