Minyar | Fri 28-Dec-12 03:01 PM |
Member since 04th Mar 2003
504 posts
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#112684, "I'm sorry, but I don't like this response."
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It makes Iunna look like a whiney child because someone didn't like her way and liked Baer's better. I am not Iunna's best friend, but I think I know her well enough to know this isn't all of it and probably in the scope of things is very small...very small.
I hope you will read this and hear what I'm saying, but I realize that this might be a futile effort. I do not believe I am alone in my feeling on this.
I feel like, and yes, I realize my feelings are subjective, that we get this kind of "I am the Great and Powerful Oz" vibe from you most of the time because we aren't good enough to know all of the secrets you know. We are told "not to look behind the curtain." That you take on a very dogmatic "This is how it is and that is it, stop asking" kind of attitude with the playerbase, but guess what man, most of your playerbase is getting older and we don't accept this kind of response anymore. I'll be honest and say that much of the time when I see your responses to things I say to myself "Why bother, he will just deny it is true, put down the poster in some semi intellectual way, or just completely ignore the issue. I say this to be productive, and not hurtful because in general I really do value all that you, and your wife do for this game, but people are right when they say her comments are snarky and mean on PBF's. I think Vlad gave a very good analogy to what the situation "could" be like and honestly I see your posts as being protective and defensive of your wife and they are an attempt to minimize that CF just lost one of its best RP immortals who has given a lot of value to the game. Not only that, but the response you gave makes Iunna look like a child because she didn't "get her way." I don't know how much power you have in the CF world, but could it possibly be that people take the approach that they aren't going to listen to the complaints of someone like Iunna because it might make you unhappy?
Maybe we should be setting a precedent that PBF comments should be constructive without tearing down the person. I realize that I have contributed little to this game in the way of ideas and other things, but I do know I've been donating since you have been asking for them, long before we did PBF. Maybe that shouldn't matter, but I've tried to contribute financially to this game because I don't have the patience to write an area and I've tried it three times. I've been in this game for nearly as long as you, and I wish you would believe me when I say that you come across very much the "My way or the highway" in your posts and that you do not come off as reasonable. You do it in a nicer way than folks like Valg though, so I give you credit there.
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(DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellcat of...
[View all] , Death_Angel, Mon 24-Dec-12 11:20 AM
Thread Locked,
Amaranthe,
29-Dec-12 11:56 PM, #95
Dang,
Valkenar,
27-Dec-12 05:03 PM, #60
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Lyristeon,
27-Dec-12 04:04 PM, #58
Good post. Appreciate it.,
TMNS,
27-Dec-12 04:32 PM, #59
FWIW,
Lyristeon,
27-Dec-12 05:48 PM, #62
Are you coming back?,
-flso,
27-Dec-12 06:15 PM, #63
Outlander certainly doesn't need love,
Blkdrgn,
28-Dec-12 01:25 AM, #76
Don't be like that.,
Splntrd,
29-Dec-12 05:07 PM, #90
Tell me about it,
robdarken_,
29-Dec-12 09:18 PM, #92
We all need love, BlkDrgn. nt,
Dallevian,
29-Dec-12 09:54 PM, #93
RE: FWIW,
Bajula,
27-Dec-12 06:23 PM, #64
oh, if it isnt my dead beat dad who left me high and dr...,
Balta,
27-Dec-12 06:55 PM, #65
You suck..come back..nough said. nt,
Minyar,
27-Dec-12 05:41 PM, #61
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Nreykre,
26-Dec-12 02:15 PM, #28
Take care, Iunna...,
Amaranthe,
26-Dec-12 11:52 AM, #27
Irreconcilable differences.,
Iunna,
26-Dec-12 10:24 AM, #26
RE: Irreconcilable differences.,
Daevryn,
26-Dec-12 02:22 PM, #29
Love is blind?,
Minyar,
26-Dec-12 02:32 PM, #30
RE: Love is blind?,
Daevryn,
26-Dec-12 07:31 PM, #41
Que?,
Iunna,
26-Dec-12 08:43 PM, #46
RE: Que?,
Daevryn,
26-Dec-12 08:47 PM, #47
Don't mistake not arguing for getting along. ,
Vladamir,
27-Dec-12 07:54 PM, #66
RE: Don't mistake not arguing for getting along. ,
Daevryn,
27-Dec-12 09:39 PM, #71
RE: Don't mistake not arguing for getting along. ,
Vladamir,
28-Dec-12 02:14 AM, #79
Good post. Incidentally, it kinda summarizes why I deci...,
Murphy,
28-Dec-12 03:13 AM, #80
I'm sorry, but I don't like this response.,
Minyar,
28-Dec-12 03:01 PM #83
RE: I'm sorry, but I don't like this response.,
Daevryn,
28-Dec-12 06:49 PM, #86
I'm an example,
Valkenar,
29-Dec-12 11:03 PM, #94
Disagree on the pbf comment thing,
robdarken_,
29-Dec-12 09:17 PM, #91
Great post/analogy nt,
Tolnum,
28-Dec-12 12:30 AM, #74
RE: Irreconcilable differences.,
Knac,
26-Dec-12 03:18 PM, #31
I would agree with this.,
Zephon,
26-Dec-12 04:02 PM, #32
RE: Irreconcilable differences.,
Isildur,
26-Dec-12 10:09 PM, #51
However, nobody likes a negative Nancy (Raybaer) who ON...,
Vladamir,
27-Dec-12 08:01 PM, #67
Not true man. I'm a fan of yours (glad to hear you're....,
TMNS,
27-Dec-12 08:33 PM, #70
Of course you don't see it dude, that's your wife.,
TMNS,
26-Dec-12 03:54 PM, #33
RE: Of course you don't see it dude, that's your wife.,
Isildur,
26-Dec-12 10:15 PM, #52
This,
Demos,
28-Dec-12 01:22 AM, #75
That's because you are inadvertently the problem.,
Tolnum,
26-Dec-12 06:11 PM, #34
That is pretty ####ty advice,
Cenatar_,
26-Dec-12 07:08 PM, #37
4-5 players?,
Tolnum,
26-Dec-12 07:14 PM, #38
RE: 4-5 players?,
Cenatar_,
26-Dec-12 07:46 PM, #43
Cyradia, Iunna,
Tolnum,
26-Dec-12 08:14 PM, #45
There are more than two Imms that people whine about. n...,
DurNominator,
27-Dec-12 03:37 AM, #53
Not to any great degree, and not usually beyond a singl...,
Vladamir,
27-Dec-12 08:23 PM, #68
But it is the same people who repeatedly whine and if y...,
Cenatar_,
28-Dec-12 11:11 AM, #82
Championing the other imms...,
Vladamir,
28-Dec-12 09:57 PM, #88
RE: Championing the other imms...,
Daevryn,
29-Dec-12 12:14 AM, #89
RE: That's because you are inadvertently the problem.,
Daevryn,
26-Dec-12 07:43 PM, #42
Hey whatever works for you,
Tolnum,
26-Dec-12 08:13 PM, #44
RE: Hey whatever works for you,
Daevryn,
26-Dec-12 08:49 PM, #48
luckily a very, very small camp. nt,
Dallevian,
26-Dec-12 08:56 PM, #49
lol you say a very small camp but the funny thing is, t...,
Blkdrgn,
27-Dec-12 03:53 PM, #57
Maybe we have different opinions on size,
Tolnum,
28-Dec-12 12:26 AM, #73
> 10% of the posts in this thread are yours. n/t,
Malakhi,
28-Dec-12 01:28 AM, #77
7 posts,
Tolnum,
28-Dec-12 02:04 AM, #78
Reasonably make me happy? Respond here.,
Tolnum,
28-Dec-12 12:22 AM, #72
RE: Reasonably make me happy? Respond here.,
Daevryn,
28-Dec-12 10:44 AM, #81
Taking that a step further...,
Moridin,
28-Dec-12 03:26 PM, #84
Lesson learned. - Derail inprogress,
Drogdenbaryd (Anonymous),
28-Dec-12 04:38 PM, #85
Where the heck have you been?,
Gaspar,
28-Dec-12 08:00 PM, #87
You?,
xrus,
27-Dec-12 05:01 AM, #55
balance of power has shifted. not for the better.,
Dallevian,
26-Dec-12 07:15 PM, #39
Take a breather, come back,
Tolnum,
26-Dec-12 06:12 PM, #35
And why the hell did you write it then?,
Shapa,
26-Dec-12 06:33 PM, #36
Why not?,
Gurn Blanston,
26-Dec-12 07:23 PM, #40
At least because of the prehistory of the deletion?,
Shapa,
27-Dec-12 03:40 AM, #54
RE: Irreconcilable differences.,
Borkahd,
26-Dec-12 09:38 PM, #50
I don't really understand,
CD,
27-Dec-12 09:00 AM, #56
Left forever or to play?,
xrus,
26-Dec-12 03:27 AM, #25
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Treebeard,
25-Dec-12 02:05 PM, #24
Lol,
The-me,
25-Dec-12 08:35 AM, #23
This makes me so sad...,
Amberion,
25-Dec-12 01:27 AM, #22
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Splntrd,
25-Dec-12 01:03 AM, #21
super bigtime sadface,
Whiysdan,
25-Dec-12 12:46 AM, #20
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Vynmylak,
25-Dec-12 12:05 AM, #19
What this mud needs, is some more Vynny Mac. nt,
Vladamir,
27-Dec-12 08:28 PM, #69
Yep.,
Bayres123,
24-Dec-12 10:53 PM, #17
A real bummer.,
Homard,
24-Dec-12 10:47 PM, #16
Really Really sorry to see this.,
hadashdakon,
24-Dec-12 09:56 PM, #14
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Graatch,
24-Dec-12 09:31 PM, #13
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Isildur,
24-Dec-12 10:28 PM, #15
Lady Ashfoot,
Zephon,
24-Dec-12 06:02 PM, #12
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
Rade,
24-Dec-12 05:19 PM, #11
Sup, babe.,
Quesnel (Anonymous),
24-Dec-12 04:01 PM, #9
Please don't go? This game won't be the same without y...,
Bukbuk,
24-Dec-12 02:54 PM, #7
This is a huge loss for CF,
Vhloughvang (Anonymous),
24-Dec-12 12:51 PM, #6
Awwww,
Hopelessdwarf,
24-Dec-12 12:47 PM, #5
:(,
Daevryn,
24-Dec-12 12:33 PM, #4
She already told me she's in for Decempire.,
TMNS,
24-Dec-12 03:02 PM, #8
RE: She already told me she's in for Decempire.,
Isildur,
24-Dec-12 04:42 PM, #10
RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca...,
HammerSong,
24-Dec-12 12:17 PM, #3
Love the Post - The Song makes me LOL at Thror - ,
Warren,
24-Dec-12 11:17 PM, #18
You will be missed.,
Kalageadon,
24-Dec-12 11:53 AM, #2
Noooooooooo!!! ,
Demos,
24-Dec-12 11:42 AM, #1
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