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MinyarFri 28-Dec-12 03:01 PM
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#112684, "I'm sorry, but I don't like this response."


          

It makes Iunna look like a whiney child because someone didn't like her way and liked Baer's better. I am not Iunna's best friend, but I think I know her well enough to know this isn't all of it and probably in the scope of things is very small...very small.

I hope you will read this and hear what I'm saying, but I realize that this might be a futile effort. I do not believe I am alone in my feeling on this.

I feel like, and yes, I realize my feelings are subjective, that we get this kind of "I am the Great and Powerful Oz" vibe from you most of the time because we aren't good enough to know all of the secrets you know. We are told "not to look behind the curtain." That you take on a very dogmatic "This is how it is and that is it, stop asking" kind of attitude with the playerbase, but guess what man, most of your playerbase is getting older and we don't accept this kind of response anymore. I'll be honest and say that much of the time when I see your responses to things I say to myself "Why bother, he will just deny it is true, put down the poster in some semi intellectual way, or just completely ignore the issue. I say this to be productive, and not hurtful because in general I really do value all that you, and your wife do for this game, but people are right when they say her comments are snarky and mean on PBF's. I think Vlad gave a very good analogy to what the situation "could" be like and honestly I see your posts as being protective and defensive of your wife and they are an attempt to minimize that CF just lost one of its best RP immortals who has given a lot of value to the game. Not only that, but the response you gave makes Iunna look like a child because she didn't "get her way." I don't know how much power you have in the CF world, but could it possibly be that people take the approach that they aren't going to listen to the complaints of someone like Iunna because it might make you unhappy?

Maybe we should be setting a precedent that PBF comments should be constructive without tearing down the person. I realize that I have contributed little to this game in the way of ideas and other things, but I do know I've been donating since you have been asking for them, long before we did PBF. Maybe that shouldn't matter, but I've tried to contribute financially to this game because I don't have the patience to write an area and I've tried it three times. I've been in this game for nearly as long as you, and I wish you would believe me when I say that you come across very much the "My way or the highway" in your posts and that you do not come off as reasonable. You do it in a nicer way than folks like Valg though, so I give you credit there.

  

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HOT Locked Topic(DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellcat of... [View all] , Death_Angel, Mon 24-Dec-12 11:20 AM
Reply Thread Locked, Amaranthe, 29-Dec-12 11:56 PM, #95
Reply Dang, Valkenar, 27-Dec-12 05:03 PM, #60
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Lyristeon, 27-Dec-12 04:04 PM, #58
Reply Good post. Appreciate it., TMNS, 27-Dec-12 04:32 PM, #59
Reply FWIW, Lyristeon, 27-Dec-12 05:48 PM, #62
     Reply Are you coming back?, -flso, 27-Dec-12 06:15 PM, #63
     Reply Outlander certainly doesn't need love, Blkdrgn, 28-Dec-12 01:25 AM, #76
          Reply Don't be like that., Splntrd, 29-Dec-12 05:07 PM, #90
          Reply Tell me about it, robdarken_, 29-Dec-12 09:18 PM, #92
          Reply We all need love, BlkDrgn. nt, Dallevian, 29-Dec-12 09:54 PM, #93
     Reply RE: FWIW, Bajula, 27-Dec-12 06:23 PM, #64
     Reply oh, if it isnt my dead beat dad who left me high and dr..., Balta, 27-Dec-12 06:55 PM, #65
Reply You suck..come back..nough said. nt, Minyar, 27-Dec-12 05:41 PM, #61
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Nreykre, 26-Dec-12 02:15 PM, #28
Reply Take care, Iunna..., Amaranthe, 26-Dec-12 11:52 AM, #27
Reply Irreconcilable differences., Iunna, 26-Dec-12 10:24 AM, #26
Reply RE: Irreconcilable differences., Daevryn, 26-Dec-12 02:22 PM, #29
Reply Love is blind?, Minyar, 26-Dec-12 02:32 PM, #30
Reply RE: Love is blind?, Daevryn, 26-Dec-12 07:31 PM, #41
     Reply Que?, Iunna, 26-Dec-12 08:43 PM, #46
          Reply RE: Que?, Daevryn, 26-Dec-12 08:47 PM, #47
               Reply Don't mistake not arguing for getting along. , Vladamir, 27-Dec-12 07:54 PM, #66
                    Reply RE: Don't mistake not arguing for getting along. , Daevryn, 27-Dec-12 09:39 PM, #71
                    Reply RE: Don't mistake not arguing for getting along. , Vladamir, 28-Dec-12 02:14 AM, #79
                    Reply Good post. Incidentally, it kinda summarizes why I deci..., Murphy, 28-Dec-12 03:13 AM, #80
                    Reply I'm sorry, but I don't like this response., Minyar, 28-Dec-12 03:01 PM #83
                         Reply RE: I'm sorry, but I don't like this response., Daevryn, 28-Dec-12 06:49 PM, #86
                         Reply I'm an example, Valkenar, 29-Dec-12 11:03 PM, #94
                         Reply Disagree on the pbf comment thing, robdarken_, 29-Dec-12 09:17 PM, #91
                    Reply Great post/analogy nt, Tolnum, 28-Dec-12 12:30 AM, #74
Reply RE: Irreconcilable differences., Knac, 26-Dec-12 03:18 PM, #31
Reply I would agree with this., Zephon, 26-Dec-12 04:02 PM, #32
Reply RE: Irreconcilable differences., Isildur, 26-Dec-12 10:09 PM, #51
     Reply However, nobody likes a negative Nancy (Raybaer) who ON..., Vladamir, 27-Dec-12 08:01 PM, #67
          Reply Not true man. I'm a fan of yours (glad to hear you're...., TMNS, 27-Dec-12 08:33 PM, #70
Reply Of course you don't see it dude, that's your wife., TMNS, 26-Dec-12 03:54 PM, #33
Reply RE: Of course you don't see it dude, that's your wife., Isildur, 26-Dec-12 10:15 PM, #52
     Reply This, Demos, 28-Dec-12 01:22 AM, #75
Reply That's because you are inadvertently the problem., Tolnum, 26-Dec-12 06:11 PM, #34
Reply That is pretty ####ty advice, Cenatar_, 26-Dec-12 07:08 PM, #37
Reply 4-5 players?, Tolnum, 26-Dec-12 07:14 PM, #38
     Reply RE: 4-5 players?, Cenatar_, 26-Dec-12 07:46 PM, #43
          Reply Cyradia, Iunna, Tolnum, 26-Dec-12 08:14 PM, #45
               Reply There are more than two Imms that people whine about. n..., DurNominator, 27-Dec-12 03:37 AM, #53
                    Reply Not to any great degree, and not usually beyond a singl..., Vladamir, 27-Dec-12 08:23 PM, #68
                         Reply But it is the same people who repeatedly whine and if y..., Cenatar_, 28-Dec-12 11:11 AM, #82
                              Reply Championing the other imms..., Vladamir, 28-Dec-12 09:57 PM, #88
                                   Reply RE: Championing the other imms..., Daevryn, 29-Dec-12 12:14 AM, #89
Reply RE: That's because you are inadvertently the problem., Daevryn, 26-Dec-12 07:43 PM, #42
     Reply Hey whatever works for you, Tolnum, 26-Dec-12 08:13 PM, #44
     Reply RE: Hey whatever works for you, Daevryn, 26-Dec-12 08:49 PM, #48
          Reply luckily a very, very small camp. nt, Dallevian, 26-Dec-12 08:56 PM, #49
          Reply lol you say a very small camp but the funny thing is, t..., Blkdrgn, 27-Dec-12 03:53 PM, #57
          Reply Maybe we have different opinions on size, Tolnum, 28-Dec-12 12:26 AM, #73
               Reply > 10% of the posts in this thread are yours. n/t, Malakhi, 28-Dec-12 01:28 AM, #77
                    Reply 7 posts, Tolnum, 28-Dec-12 02:04 AM, #78
          Reply Reasonably make me happy? Respond here., Tolnum, 28-Dec-12 12:22 AM, #72
               Reply RE: Reasonably make me happy? Respond here., Daevryn, 28-Dec-12 10:44 AM, #81
                    Reply Taking that a step further..., Moridin, 28-Dec-12 03:26 PM, #84
                         Reply Lesson learned. - Derail inprogress, Drogdenbaryd (Anonymous), 28-Dec-12 04:38 PM, #85
                         Reply Where the heck have you been?, Gaspar, 28-Dec-12 08:00 PM, #87
     Reply You?, xrus, 27-Dec-12 05:01 AM, #55
Reply balance of power has shifted. not for the better., Dallevian, 26-Dec-12 07:15 PM, #39
Reply Take a breather, come back, Tolnum, 26-Dec-12 06:12 PM, #35
Reply And why the hell did you write it then?, Shapa, 26-Dec-12 06:33 PM, #36
Reply Why not?, Gurn Blanston, 26-Dec-12 07:23 PM, #40
     Reply At least because of the prehistory of the deletion?, Shapa, 27-Dec-12 03:40 AM, #54
Reply RE: Irreconcilable differences., Borkahd, 26-Dec-12 09:38 PM, #50
Reply I don't really understand, CD, 27-Dec-12 09:00 AM, #56
Reply Left forever or to play?, xrus, 26-Dec-12 03:27 AM, #25
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Treebeard, 25-Dec-12 02:05 PM, #24
Reply Lol, The-me, 25-Dec-12 08:35 AM, #23
Reply This makes me so sad..., Amberion, 25-Dec-12 01:27 AM, #22
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Splntrd, 25-Dec-12 01:03 AM, #21
Reply super bigtime sadface, Whiysdan, 25-Dec-12 12:46 AM, #20
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Vynmylak, 25-Dec-12 12:05 AM, #19
Reply What this mud needs, is some more Vynny Mac. nt, Vladamir, 27-Dec-12 08:28 PM, #69
Reply Yep., Bayres123, 24-Dec-12 10:53 PM, #17
Reply A real bummer., Homard, 24-Dec-12 10:47 PM, #16
Reply Really Really sorry to see this., hadashdakon, 24-Dec-12 09:56 PM, #14
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Graatch, 24-Dec-12 09:31 PM, #13
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Isildur, 24-Dec-12 10:28 PM, #15
Reply Lady Ashfoot, Zephon, 24-Dec-12 06:02 PM, #12
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., Rade, 24-Dec-12 05:19 PM, #11
Reply Sup, babe., Quesnel (Anonymous), 24-Dec-12 04:01 PM, #9
Reply Please don't go? This game won't be the same without y..., Bukbuk, 24-Dec-12 02:54 PM, #7
Reply This is a huge loss for CF, Vhloughvang (Anonymous), 24-Dec-12 12:51 PM, #6
Reply Awwww, Hopelessdwarf, 24-Dec-12 12:47 PM, #5
Reply :(, Daevryn, 24-Dec-12 12:33 PM, #4
Reply She already told me she's in for Decempire., TMNS, 24-Dec-12 03:02 PM, #8
     Reply RE: She already told me she's in for Decempire., Isildur, 24-Dec-12 04:42 PM, #10
Reply RE: (DELETED) [BATTLE] Iunna Ashfoot the Blazing Hellca..., HammerSong, 24-Dec-12 12:17 PM, #3
Reply Love the Post - The Song makes me LOL at Thror - , Warren, 24-Dec-12 11:17 PM, #18
Reply You will be missed., Kalageadon, 24-Dec-12 11:53 AM, #2
Reply Noooooooooo!!! , Demos, 24-Dec-12 11:42 AM, #1
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