Shouldn't this be something handled by the imms?

My problem is that, there's no way in game to tell someone, "Hey, I got pissed off and accidentally ripped the phoneline out of the wall" or whatever in character to your leader. Even if it happened more than once, its still a very out of character concept to log out.

I'm Ok with there being a guideline or chastisement regarding it, by an Imm, whom someone has the ability to go out of character with and duly explain themselves to where appropriate, but it seems nonsensical and even unfair to have to explain to someone in game why you logged out.