How should you act if someone successfully raids your cabal?
Should you try to retrieve right then or you can wait a hour or two until it gets safer to do it

How should you act if someone is raiding your cabal?
Should you come right then to protect it or you can wait... etc

I've noticed that some people just dying while attempting to retrieve, often to gangs, but they just keep coming back.

And there are some who don't seem to care about retrieving at all if there is a small chance of dying in the process.

I am really confused, how should one act?

thanks