>Yeah..."Why did you kill me?" That is really a horribly
>worded, grossly over-simplified question to ask...But when it
>becomes worrying, like you get killed by the same person over
>and over and over and you just can't be sure why, is it really
>that taboo to ask what's up?

If you think your character would ask, go ahead and ask in the manner that they would. Some of my characters would be curious, others might assume they knew the answer or otherwise not ask for some reason.

Equally, as asking and the manner in which you do or don't should be driven by your roleplay, so should the responses you get. I've played a lot of very straightforward characters who would come right out and tell you (in essence) I'm a Battlerager and you're a mage, or whatever. I've equally played characters that either wouldn't answer or would give a deceptive answer.