Thanks for the advice.. However I have already made my first character, a human neutral assassin. Thanks to all the over-planning I had a role at level 1, and a description at level 2. I am going to play it as someone who wants more to go out and experience life, to explore and solve quests, rather then someone who adventures out of a desire to do good, or amass personal power for themselves regardless of others. Or, in short, my character will adventure out of love of advenutring, not as a means to an end. This not only allows me to keep away from analyzing every act to see if it serves my alignment, but also freedom to try things that people of one alignment might not be able to. This should help me experience a bit of everything CF has to offer. So I will be spending most of my time jumping into things, doing quests, and RPing, and none on ethical/moral questions. Hopefully this will provide me with many interesting roleplaying experiences, and a nice show of what CF has to offer.

As for Cabals, none of them seem to fit especially well. As far as I can see, the only two cabals that accept neutrals would be battle and heralds. Battle is streight out, I want to spend my time adventuring and exploring, not hunting mages. The Heralds seem to be closer to my style, but I don't see my character as much of an entertainer. I already picked the sphere of Passion for my character, as it seemed most appropriate. I am staying religionless for the moment too.

PS: Thanks for the great advice everyone