You were liffit as well right?

I tried to stop your advances for a reason. When he became
leader i took on the 50's father figure type. Quiet,
commanding, who could give orders with just a glance or the
way he would look at somebody.
He tried super hard to not beckon at every call, or heal
someone at whim because he wanted to teach his men to rely on
themselves. Not because it would make it easier, but because
when he wasnt around, they would never have that option.

It was very intentional that i ignored those advances, and it
was because of the sheer reason that he joined the brigade,
because he watched his wife and daughter die and he was unable
to prevent it.