Sorry that thing seemed "taken over", I tried to keep everyone informed so they could have room to just jump in, sort of like Melinda did, just with more than just coffee and tea. As for the gruffness...well, yeah, Gherian considers himself a battlemage, a warrior with fireballs instead of swords, so his personality reflects that. More instant action, less quiet contemplation. I did try to make time for everyone though, and I did enjoy what little time we spent together, friction or no. Enjoy the holiday.