I am all for slaying goodies because I think it is good roleplay for an anti-paladin. These fearsome paladins you speak of do not exist, or I haven't met any yet. I can't remember the last time I got a charge from a paladin. The ones who consistently give the most charges are ones that can hide in some manner, plain and simple.

Now, if I choose to hunt an evil assassin over that paladin who hates everything I embody simply because I may get more charges from the assassin is when I say that numbercrunching is affecting roleplay and to me, I don't think this is right.

An ap should kill whomever he wishes (compliant with his role) without worrying about how many charges he is going to get. I hope this is clearer now.