And in general it's unfair for the staff, because players are what they are - emotional ####heads who perform physics style on occasion.

Staff however are held to a different standard. That's unfair. But as a father you don't behave like your child when he cries for titties. You act mature, because that's your social role and responsibility.

Sorry to impose moral obligations on staff, but that's one of the reasons you pick your staff members carefully, isn't it?