Congratulations! Do what you feel is best, with those things most important in mind first of course. CF will survive and be waiting for you if/when you want to return.

I hate to sound like a goof, but moderation in all things is best. It's commendable that you've stretched yourself so thin to try and fill in the gaps you see, but take care of yourself first and the other stuff will work out.

With respect to any player, especially an evil character blasting an evil god or goddess about how they're this or that, if this came through via the other Imms, someone more than likely should have landed a smite on his ass or saddled him with some severe famine. Not even as a punishment as much as an RP (remember who you're talking about and where you are) sorta thing. That's not dissauding him from having his opinion, it's about RP and only an idiot takes a power's name and runs it through the mud without worrying he might reap the whirlwind, unless the power in question is notoriously of the 'I don't give a ####.' mode of thinking.

Don't take them personally. You are the only one who knows with what intent you put forth your effort. You're only responsible for your intent. Ideally the players/other Imms, etc. get it too, but you can't really control that. Shrug it off as kids throwing a tantrum when they misread you, and chalk it up to good practice for when your little one or ones get older and try your patience.

You can't please all the people all the time and so forth.