This kind of relates to your private chat idea. It is a guilt ridden response to actually being the one to cheat, yet you want to accuse others of doing such to keep the spotlight off of your own actions.

Also deleting your character because you made choices that turned a typically harmless char against you because of your greed or lack of being able to make your own choices as Drogathar's little slave just kind of makes you look like a fool.

Watching your interaction IC with Lyeeth shows that you were the toxic asshole and are better to be gone since permas are lame.