Be honest man.

You felt shorted and you wanted someone to know and why.

Be strait about this man. Intellectual honesty is a measure of ones own integrity toward themself.

Don't resist it, don't fight it, accept it, learn from it, grow.

I think you were both wrong in equal measure, but I don't think you should have prayed, I don't think the Imm should have "What the Hell'ed" you.

Food for thought: You could have written a note waited a while, then posted it.