Rogue | Sun 27-Aug-06 05:49 PM |
Member since 24th Sep 2003
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#23, "How do you begin to deal with significant others, who HATE CF?"
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Hi, curious how the consensus deals with a problem I face at a constant, and I would hope I'm not alone in.
My gf, absolutely despises this game, and we've gotten into some pretty hefty fights over it. Generally, since I've moved in with her, I strictly play only while she's at work, and even then my time is limited because of other things I need to get done with my online college, housework, etc. Even so much as pulling up this and the other cf website just to glance over any of my posts, recent logs, etc., she can instantly go into bitch-on-wheels mode.
At this very moment, she's in another room all upset and in a huffy over yet Another fight, because as she's putting her son in for a bath (he's generally here every other weekend, and this specific time, bath/before bed is about an hour or so of free time) then afterwards going to read to him before bed.. So.. for the first time in a long time, I log in while she's actually in the house. Granted, I could have been looking at sites for dog adoption, watched TV, or done pretty much ANYthing else, but simply because I chose to throw my free time tonight on CF, we've got to have another fight on how so much more important cf is than her.
I don't drink anymore, I don't gamble, I don't cheat, I don't beat her.. I play CF, that's it. A many long years hobby, and probably the single most thing I have, and do enjoy, as far as when I'm not with her.
I honestly think that this is going to end up ruining our relationship, in that 1. I'm not quitting my hobby simply because she's jealous 2. Her sometimes outrageous jealousy of it, pisses me off 3. It's something I love, and I think is totally ####ed that she's acting like this, knowing for the 2+yrs we've been together (lived together 6mos) she's known damn well I've been at this thing for nearly 8-9yrs strong.
Lastly.. I used to play insane hours, sometimes 20hrs a day when I could pull it off. Now, I rarely get more than 35 in a week, or more than a five or six hour session a day as it is.
Any one can relate, or offer some kind of advice? This is just getting so old between me and her, and it's driving me crazy.
-Rogue
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How do you begin to deal with significant others, who H...
[View all] , Rogue, Sun 27-Aug-06 05:49 PM
RE: How do you begin to deal with significant others, w...,
Isildur,
29-Aug-06 11:59 PM, #7
Well..,
Amaranthe,
29-Aug-06 09:50 PM, #6
Yes, Yes, and Yes,
Corrlaan,
27-Aug-06 11:57 AM, #4
HEEHEE HAAHAA HOOHOO HOHO!,
Lyristeon,
27-Aug-06 07:56 AM, #3
Oh man, I just fell out of my chair. n/t,
Grurk Muouk,
27-Aug-06 01:54 PM, #5
Been there. Heard that!,
Ysaloerye,
26-Aug-06 09:20 PM, #2
I've encountered some of that.,
jasmin,
26-Aug-06 09:02 PM, #1
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