In that they try to 'micro manage' when they really shouldn't be.

As Jaeiin in Outlanders I knew my place, I was the one who made people want to be an outlander and happy.

Then there was this druid, who insisted on telling everyone what action they will be doing in a raid. Despite the fact we all knew our own strengths better, they'd insist on 'ordering' what people should do.

It made me want to do the opposite. Not only because of my characters chaoticness, but also because of the arrogance that came across in a druid giving anything similar to orders.