The main disconnect is that I'm explaining why this happened, why at some point I've stopped hiding who is behind char. While they are just saying that I was outed myself.

Was I right or wrong? Who knows..

I belive I was right, some of your belive that no. I'm totaly sure that most of those who think I was wrong even don't remember how this actualy happened, because .. umm.. it's not like they must remember my char at all.

>> you decided "Everyone knows, I'm going to stop trying to hide it
>> "at a point when it seems like a lot more people than you thought >> didn't know yet.

I've decided: I know how much people and who exactly knew I'm playing Ahtieli. Everyone who would like to figure it out will know it in like 5 mins. Yes, may be "majority"
of player base did not know it. But as I said they would need like 5 mins to find it out by asking their ooc friends.

>>To those people (including me) it seems like you outted yourself
>>because we had no idea.

Those people were not interested in that question yet, otherwise they would know it. Especialy you :P