But to be honest, the reason I typically don't go much into it, is often I'm assaulted with a slew of complaints about how I shouldn't have taken any loot and shouldn't have attacked to begin with and etc about how my character should act, which invariable is 'some sort of way which would never detriment them'.

I don't really ignore people, but I'm definately leery about initiating the post fight convo, because I've learned that some people just get more pissed off if you try to talk to them.