Fair enough. To me, your post read like not only was it how you identified the player through the character, but you thought it was something that should be frowned upon.

I just don't see a problem with choosing to play chicks almost all the time because you get something for free.

Sidenote: While I very rarely play females, I'll admit that for bards and conjurers, it does make getting good +chr a lot easier. While there is +chr gear for both genders, from what I've found and identified, the female_only stuff tends to be better (ie more mods, higher level, etc.), not to mention it's usually not maxxed.