You just don't have as good an understanding of the situation as you seem to think you do. Maybe thats because it didn't involve you, and you were very clearly trying to interject yourself where you weren't needed, wanted or appreciated. Either way, being an outsider to what was going on in every possible way, you were reacting to things based on opinions formed without the full information. and it showed.

I hope that response was cuddly enough to stay up since the first one wasn't.