I'm just feeding you your own medicine.

>"Appropriate RP" means act as your character would.
Maybe some Herald bard insulted you, what makes you think they weren't acting as their character would?

And Qinsa treating you like crap because he thought that you slighted someone he cared about? He was acting as his character would.

And I'm not suggesting you should have attacked me. I'm saying all I saw about your character was that you came into the Inn, shouted some gibberish and left. Likely you had an IC reason to avoid interacting with me, or Heralds. Just don't complain when it bites you back in the form of people not valuing you.