Just wanted to drop in and say from an Immortal standpoint, I never thought anything horrible of Thelathelao. The one incident I got on your case (which is still playing out ICly, so I'm being a bit more vague), it's more a combination of two things.

1) There's a point where the complaints and issues going on begin to bleed the player's perspective rather than the character. It's a thin line to walk between letting mortals play things out, and ruling w/ an iron thumb and I hope you got to see that issues began to turn shortly afterwards.

2) Jormyr, ICly, isn't one for a lot of talking. It's sort of a necessity as far as religion goes, but for this situation, he's way more down for "stab first, argue over his steaming remains". (Yay chaotic evil war god). You were having issues with someone, Jor's pretty much cool with "fixing" it by stabbing him repeatedly.

Anyways - it's all still going down IC, but getting on your case was mostly to stop that train before it left the station. Initial notes were perfectly fine. When it goes down the road you were on, better just to cut it down to the people who matter. In your case just getting an idea from Sekope (or Llathe or I, ICly) if you couldn't find him.

GLWYN!