>It's probably too personal, but to the extent it came from
>cf, affected players, and perhaps caused the departure of
>someone from it, care to explain how that cf lovelife drama
>arose and played out? I'll be honest and say I heard quite a
>bit from Challen, but it's long enough ago that I really don't
>recall any of the details. Just a lot - a lot - of venom both
>ways. And as I was not a big fan of yours from other of our
>interactions (see posts above? :)) I was generally ready to
>take his word at face value.
>
>But I'm intellectually honest enough to know there are always
>two sides, so if you care to explain how it worked, I'd be
>interested to hear.


It was a long time ago, but here's the basics as best I remember. Was in a serious relationship for a fairly long time with someone, and it didn't work out in the end - we were much better friends than lovers, turns out. She was then in a relationship with Challen for a while after we broke up. Us both being competitive guys, there was venom back and forth that really wasn't necessary. I had met him and he seemed alright, I'm told he was deathly afraid of me though. I didn't appreciate how my ex/friend was being treated sometimes, but I was a bit immature back then - I'm sure I did some ####ty things too. Anyway, after a while they broke up, I remained very close friends with the girl for a few years more and then we had a falling out. I've moved on to better things; I'm sure they have as well.