But Aztezul's immexp shows that for even a star players it's barely possible nowadays. If he would be a raybaer follower, he would have 7-10k immexp now, a couple of extra gift edges and a few special quest spells :) So I'm totally fine that everyone receive a little of immexp nowadays, it makes the game more fair.

I'd say - just play, don't expect anything and do your best. No expectations - no disappointments. Or even expect that you won't ever receive a single point of immexp and game will be a lot more comfortable for you.