Just have some fun and enjoy the Rites when they come. I try to judge a character by the character, more so than if I think it is some elite PK skilled player or not behind them. Believe it or not, in the village RP matters just as much as PK if not more, given how villagers are supposed to behave and act.

It's not about being deadly in my eyes, Salyeris was not deadly at all for most of her life. She was just helpful to the other villagers.

Just keep having fun and stick to the RP and you'll be a great DM.