Rahsael | Mon 22-Oct-18 11:15 AM |
Member since 05th May 2017
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#71736, "RE: If every unhappy person immediately left"
Edited on Mon 22-Oct-18 11:20 AM
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I think you and another person have taken what I said to an extreme that I didn't intend. If I was unclear, I apologize. Even if you're just trolling me, I'll explain below to make sure that everyone else understands what I meant.
Everyone's unhappy about *something* in the game. Yeah, I get the frustration over edge point changes, for instance. I was still a player when they were made and I tended to PK a lot. I'd love to see some changes to Hunter Rangers, too.
But I'm talking about something a bit deeper than that. If ANYTHING, in sum, makes you more unhappy than it makes you happy, that is when I would encourage you to evaluate why you're doing it.
I never tried to set forth a "love CF unconditionally or go away" ultimatum. I never said "don't ever complain." There's no threat to ban anyone. It's a lot more nuanced than that. I only ask that you consider if being involved here is not only un-fun for you, but making you actively unhappy. If that's the case, it's better to leave and maybe get happier - and even regain some perspective and appreciation for this place while you're away - than stay and become toxic. I've done that, and it worked for me.
I promise I'm not trying to be mean or nasty here, but you just raised Constitutional arguments that apply only to governments in a bulletin-board post to the volunteer dungeonmasters of a small gaming community. You're saying that I somehow have to earn your trust when I've done nothing to earn your distrust. I don't even know where to begin, I'd rather just keep doing what I'm able to do to make this place a little more special for people while they're here. I don't think you're just angry - I think you are profoundly unhappy and I'm genuinely sorry for that. I just don't think we're equipped to fix it.
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If we all just trust the imms and stop making demands
[View all] , Murphy, Sun 21-Oct-18 11:50 PM
RE: If we all just trust the imms and stop making deman...,
robdarken_,
22-Oct-18 05:53 PM, #14
Right, we can use a different term.,
Murphy,
22-Oct-18 06:12 PM, #15
RE: If we all just trust the imms and stop making deman...,
Saagkri,
23-Oct-18 04:52 PM, #19
RE: If we all just trust the imms and stop making deman...,
robdarken_,
24-Oct-18 05:18 AM, #34
Wait wait wait what?,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 05:31 AM, #37
RE: Wait wait wait what?,
robdarken_,
24-Oct-18 05:43 AM, #39
I'm from Hello Kitty Island Adventure Land.,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 06:11 AM, #41
Here's why it doesn't work...,
Saagkri,
24-Oct-18 06:19 AM, #42
I'm wasn't likening that point to a legal proceeding,
robdarken_,
24-Oct-18 07:08 AM, #43
I agree with your assessment in a generic situation.,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 07:32 AM, #48
Why I brought this up all of a sudden.,
Murphy,
22-Oct-18 06:34 AM, #7
Constitutions,
laxman,
22-Oct-18 01:58 AM, #2
Check out Patriot act,
Kstatida,
22-Oct-18 04:29 AM, #5
Not part of the constitution ,
laxman,
22-Oct-18 09:15 AM, #8
Forgive Murphy,
Kstatida,
22-Oct-18 01:37 PM, #10
That is part of the constitution ,
laxman,
22-Oct-18 01:47 PM, #12
Use Google, you nitpicker. (N/T),
Murphy,
22-Oct-18 06:22 PM, #16
I didn’t take all of those general ed required h...,
laxman,
22-Oct-18 07:15 PM, #17
Amendment 4,
Kstatida,
23-Oct-18 09:45 AM, #18
Doesn’t cover this situation ,
laxman,
23-Oct-18 04:58 PM, #20
Ok mr. Lawyer, I will just quote Wikipedia to quell the...,
Murphy,
23-Oct-18 10:02 PM, #21
They didn’t hack your skype,
laxman,
23-Oct-18 10:49 PM, #22
The police may have that right, CF imms don't.,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 12:06 AM, #24
RE: The police may have that right, CF imms don't.,
robdarken_,
24-Oct-18 05:42 AM, #38
Re: why is your privacy a higher decency concern than c...,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 05:58 AM, #40
RE: Re: why is your privacy a higher decency concern th...,
lasentia,
24-Oct-18 06:52 AM, #45
The fault lies with both,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 07:20 AM, #47
And betrayal of trust only requires one thing,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 06:51 AM, #44
RE: And betrayal of trust only requires one thing,
robdarken_,
24-Oct-18 07:12 AM, #46
RE: Doesn’t cover this situation ,
Kstatida,
24-Oct-18 03:48 AM, #30
Guys this NPC got out of CF. Get a coder on this ASAP. ...,
robdarken_,
22-Oct-18 05:40 AM, #6
I'll show you I'm trustworthy. Just email me your debit...,
Rahsael,
22-Oct-18 01:52 AM, #1
Fair enough. Your online count approves this point of v...,
Meh (Anonymous),
22-Oct-18 03:30 AM, #3
If every unhappy person immediately left,
Murphy,
22-Oct-18 04:00 AM, #4
RE: If every unhappy person immediately left,
Rahsael,
22-Oct-18 11:20 AM #9
People are diverse,
Kstatida,
22-Oct-18 01:39 PM, #11
I'm pretty okay right now.,
Murphy,
22-Oct-18 05:57 PM, #13
You're wrong though.,
Swordsosaurus,
23-Oct-18 11:20 PM, #23
I was using it to talk to my friends, not to cheat,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 12:30 AM, #25
Again, the disconnect.,
Swordsosaurus,
24-Oct-18 12:38 AM, #26
Yeah I'm not your boss.,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 12:50 AM, #27
And I thought they should know that I think you're wron...,
Swordsosaurus,
24-Oct-18 01:00 AM, #28
It's not difficult at all.,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 01:29 AM, #29
It's about common sense and moral law,
Kstatida,
24-Oct-18 03:56 AM, #31
Stop cheating.,
Swordsosaurus,
24-Oct-18 04:47 AM, #32
He isn't cheating lol, he is banned.,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 05:23 AM, #36
I don't need your advice about what to do rly,
Kstatida,
24-Oct-18 03:37 PM, #49
Honestly, it's a difficult situation.,
Swordsosaurus,
24-Oct-18 04:51 AM, #33
Lol I never meant to,
Murphy,
24-Oct-18 05:17 AM, #35
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