There's something about this post that twists things. No one is punishing you. Nobody has no concept and doesn't care, unless you are talking about people roleplaying evil leaders, which you should expect if your trying to join Scion.

You don't have to do extra work, you have to do different work. Write notes instead of have conversations(Cabal leaders have to do both and lots, so if that's extra work to you, I don't recommend leadership). If you prefer conversations, I can certainly understand that, but no one is trying to give you the shaft. And its not that no one cares, its just I can't think of a better solution. I'll always be open to suggestions though.

As far as expecting the leaders to send notes to the cabal detailing quests and such...induction alone doesn't earn the full confidence of evil leaders. Proving yourself an indispensable ally can.