I think that's one of the big reasons you won't see many imms respond to threads like this.

It's sort of like customer service. Customer says "I want X!" you say "No, we only do Y" and no matter how you phrase it or say it you'll make them unhappy.

Then if we don't respond it's bad, and if we do it's bad too. It's a no-win kind of feeling, which I think is a REAL turn-off for some folks.

Unlucky for you and me, I'm hard-headed and stubborn so I'm going to reply anyway ;). I tend to think dialogue is good, and the right way to do things, but I could be wrong!

-Ish