Why not stop at slay? Why destroy gear that potentially took hundreds of hour for solo muter guy to amass?

Like if you're going to do that just deny him. I don't know who it is but you seem to, so it sort of feels like there's some bias there.

You complain about forum drama being started but you (you're saying you had nothing to do with this situation at all?) really ####ed this guy for a very minor offense.

You are DEAD!
say Oh ####tickle-banana humping dinkenflickas!

Nobody is around to hear it, nobody is even online, what does it matter? Did the guy have previous cheat history with this character nobody has mentioned yet?