I agree with you. On an expected awe-scale from Astein to Grummorum, Neltouda is saying she wants to be more on the Astein side. Most gods probably fall much closer to Astein than Grummorum, in fact. Probably Neltouda gets more touchy feely stuff partly because it's a female character, which is sexist bs, but probably also because the religion is more happy-go-lucky and herald-y, which gives people a wrong impression of the expectation.

But certainly there are more physically approachable gods than others.