When some years ago I realized that the whole wield-issues is not going to be fixed I wrote a mighty wear script that simplifies the thing for me. It is also a phucking nightmare script as is the original "wear" command and it is not 100% proof but still it does "ok" remembering my current wield ( including disarmed, broken or lost due to entwininig weapons ), it tries to choose the fastest way to swap weapons, for example, he knows that you have to remove shield but don't have to remove offhand weapon before wielding another one, it tracks two-handed or cursed wields and so on.

And now you know what?
When you play with wear command I have to change it accordingly }(
Screw you lazy programmers. Phuck granular changes, take guts and rewrite the whole thing.