It's one thing to set out to not be a griefer, it's another to not do anything about it, once you learn you have that reputation.

I mean, you have to be with two, to be a griefer. What you see as normal, might be a grievance to another. Even when you do not mean to, you are a griefer, once someone feels griefed.

Just something to consider.


PS: Yes, I am aware that the term Griefer commonly implies deliberate action.